I May Be Criticized for Saying This, But I Believe Schools Should Stop Awarding "Best Student" at End-of-Term Parties.
Yes, I said it.
Every year, schools gather children together and publicly announce:
Best Student
Most Brilliant Pupil
Overall Best
The same few children walk to the front smiling while dozens of others sit quietly watching.
What many adults don't realize is that some children go home that day believing they are failures.
Imagine a child who started the term unable to identify letters but can now read simple sentences.
Imagine a child who moved from 15% to 60%.
Imagine a child who fought through sickness, family problems, or learning difficulties and still showed up every day.
Then the message they receive at the party is:
"You are not the best."
And we wonder why some children gradually lose confidence in themselves.
Education should not be a competition where only the fastest child is celebrated.
A school is not a race track.
The purpose of education is growth.
The child who improved from 20% to 60% may have worked harder than the child who scored 95%.
Yet one receives a trophy while the other receives applause and goes home empty-handed.
Before you say, "Life is competitive," remember that these are children.
Confidence is built before competition is introduced.
A child who believes in himself will compete better in the future than a child who grows up feeling inadequate.
Why don't we celebrate:
Most Improved Learner
Best Reading Progress
Most Helpful Classmate
Best Behaviour
Outstanding Effort
Excellent Attendance
Most Resilient Learner
Every child has something worth celebrating.
I know many people will disagree with me.
But I would rather raise a confident child who keeps improving than a discouraged child who believes success belongs only to a chosen few.
So tell me honestly:
Should schools continue giving only "Best Student" awards, or is it time for a different approach?
#eduproforum
Yes, I said it.
Every year, schools gather children together and publicly announce:
The same few children walk to the front smiling while dozens of others sit quietly watching.
What many adults don't realize is that some children go home that day believing they are failures.
Imagine a child who started the term unable to identify letters but can now read simple sentences.
Imagine a child who moved from 15% to 60%.
Imagine a child who fought through sickness, family problems, or learning difficulties and still showed up every day.
Then the message they receive at the party is:
"You are not the best."
And we wonder why some children gradually lose confidence in themselves.
Education should not be a competition where only the fastest child is celebrated.
A school is not a race track.
The purpose of education is growth.
The child who improved from 20% to 60% may have worked harder than the child who scored 95%.
Yet one receives a trophy while the other receives applause and goes home empty-handed.
Before you say, "Life is competitive," remember that these are children.
Confidence is built before competition is introduced.
A child who believes in himself will compete better in the future than a child who grows up feeling inadequate.
Why don't we celebrate:
Every child has something worth celebrating.
I know many people will disagree with me.
But I would rather raise a confident child who keeps improving than a discouraged child who believes success belongs only to a chosen few.
So tell me honestly:
Should schools continue giving only "Best Student" awards, or is it time for a different approach?
#eduproforum